blurred about life"s simple complexities

Monday, November 06, 2006

dinner at 8pm..?


went shopping a lil, got home from one whole day out, did some chores, suppose to meet up for dinner with some friends, then.. it rained outside. oh well, good time to just laze on my bed. then.. *beep beep*

friend : to your opinion, what would you define as a perfect date?
me : O_o hmm, main motive is just to spend time together. if about environment, maybe jazz music, not a crowded place, somewhere comfortable and coffee! hehe.. which hot chick you trying to date la? hehe.. (^_^)
friend : no movies kah? no la.. i'm just trying to understand girls better.
me : oh.. haha.. my advice is dont try to understand them, just love her and you'll know whats the perfect date to have with her.
friend : har? *sigh* sad to say but i hafta agree with you.
me : *grin*
friend : i guess at d end of da day, it's still down to da personality huh? whether can click or not, able to communicate or not.. go with da flow, baby
me : haha! main thing is if you really love her and she loves you in return la..
[ wah... like a script line from donno what lomantic movie ]
friend : uh huh.. but wanna spark it ma.. hehe


when my friend asked me that question, i was thinking - fine dining, wine, a performance, walk down the beach, all beautifully dressed up - those sorta stuff that you see from the movies. but then, every girl would define their perfect date differently. so, if we know what the other person would enjoy and i guess to see the smile at the end of the date, that would be the perfect date.

then it got me thinking, what would be a perfect date with my Father?

currently in church, we're doing 'hearing the voice of God' and how samuel really desired to be with God. how he really 'just wanted to spend time' with God. we could be spending time with God with our devotion, reading His word.. but at the same time, thinking about lunch, about the jacket you saw the other day, about what someone said, etc. so much for a 'perfect date' with our Dad, huh?

so, what's your definition of a perfect date?

[ this morning my friend asked me *again*, would you expect a flower from ur date? O_o ]

song in head : the way you look tonight - tony bennet

5 comments:

Anonymous said...

Oh Wow WoW Wow!!! Welcome Back Fay Cheng

You talk like a "Pro"

I can only "Smile" for what you wrote there. Ah! you make the guys think. Ding Ding Ding. Cya gal

Anonymous said...

Hi Fei Cheng, Uncle Siva here. wah! You listen to songs by Tony Bennet also ah? Usually young people seldom listen to his songs. The normal expression if you ask about Tony Bennet is "Tony who?"
(Because I switched to Beta Blogger, I can't comment using my account).

blurred esh said...

hey marc.. not pro la.. just too much movies and girl talks. hehehe.

hi uncle siva.. of cuz listen to him la.. frank sinatra also.. happening leh! so, uncle siva must start listening to 'Evanescence' la.. ;o)

Genusfrog said...

go on date cannot watch movie wan lah! it's the biggest waste of time. say your date from 7 to 11. if you watch movie, half of your four hours will be spent facing a screen and not talking/looking/communicating to each other. and still, ppl think that good date must go for movie. haigh.

ps. when we get pix of cupboard girl, i'll pass them to you!

blurred esh said...

yea man..! well, of cuz once in awhile its okie la.. but all the time watch movie a lil.........

off track : *eeks!* finds new cupboard to hide.. closet maybe, with a box of low fat milk